If intelligence makes you practical, determined, hard to fool in relationships, it’s fine. Gives social power, makes money for dates, fine. Makes you funny with clever teases, cultured, personable on dates, fine. Helps click with people, especially her—read signals, build rapport. Sexual imagination sparks bedroom passion, fine. Intelligence making you win her attraction, fine. Dating edge: outthink rivals, escalate smoothly. Brains plus charm = irresistible.